I will tell you a story. An elder lived in a silent desert. Demons apparently attacked him and began to drag him out of his cell, intending to drive him out of the desert altogether. The elder began to fight them off, but they overpowered him and dragged him right to the door.
A little more and they would have thrown him out.
Seeing his extreme distress, the elder cried out: "Lord, Jesus Christ! Why have You forsaken me? Help me, Lord!"
As soon as he cried out, the Lord immediately appeared and dispersed the demons, and said to the elder: "I did not abandon you; but since you did not call upon Me, and thought to deal with your enemies yourself, I did not come forward to help you.
You yourself are to blame, relying on yourself. Call upon Me, and you will always find ready help." Having said this, the Lord became invisible. Having enlightened the elder, this incident teaches us all not to wallow in our passionate thoughts, arguing with them mentally, but to immediately turn to the Lord with prayer against them.
Don't rely on yourself and others more than on God. Trust only in God and always call upon Him for help.
St. Theophan the Recluse





